You never thought this would be your story. While I can’t change it, I can help you through it.
Your plans of having children didn’t include months or years of trying, seemingly-endless doctor visits, and countless injections. And not to mention the emotional pain of infertility struggles.
You’ve gone off birth control, tracked ovulation, taken a painful number of negative pregnancy tests, eaten a healthy diet, and researched everything there is to know about your options. Perhaps you’ve even tried IVF or IUI.
Only to be left waiting, wondering, questioning, and crying with empty arms.
I understand where you are. I’ve felt everything you’re feeling right now. And I want to let you know that I’m here to help you through it by providing compassionate, understanding infertility therapy.
Infertility is a Trauma You Live Everyday. I Get It.
Living through the excruciating pain, sadness, grief, and despair of infertility takes a toll on you. Your mental health suffers. Your relationships suffer. And your wallet – well, that suffers too.
While not typically recognized as one, experiencing infertility is a trauma. It’s a trauma you’re forced to live with every day, constantly putting bandages on wounds that just.keep.opening.
It’s awful, and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
Unfortunately, I’ve walked through the fire. And now I want to help you do the same, no matter what that looks like to you.
But it takes work. It takes commitment. If you’re ready to do what it takes, I’m prepared to provide you with affirming, empathetic infertility therapy.
“The MIDDLE is messy, but it’s also where the MAGIC happens.”
~ Brené Brown
What to Expect From Infertility Counseling With Me
Yes, I have my own experiences with infertility. But my journey is not your journey. Yours is all your own. You won’t need to explain the process of IVF or partnering with a gestational carrier when you work with me. Instead, infertility therapy with me provides a valuable, uniquely safe space where you can decide what that journey looks like and guide you along the path.
I understand what you’re going through. You can expect compassion, understanding, honesty, as well as professional guidance. Whether you need help deciding if you should keep trying, take a break, live child-free, or consider third-party reproduction, I’m here for you.
I want you to know that everything you’re feeling, all of the challenging thoughts and emotions, they are 100% valid.
I want you to know that everything you’re feeling, all of the challenging thoughts and emotions, they are 100% valid.
Yes, including the thoughts and questions you’ve had in your mind but, out of self-judgment, don’t want to admit.
It’s a chance for you to gain the professional insight you need and the personal understanding from a woman who’s been in your shoes.
Infertility counseling with me is safe, nonjudgmental, and authentic.
As a PsyPact member, I provide infertility counseling and third-party reproduction support in-person in Greensboro, North Carolina, and online in 34 other PsyPact states.
Professional Third-Party Reproduction Consultations and Evaluations with a Good Reputation
The process of third-party reproduction is an incredibly complex personal decision. And going through it runs the gamut of emotions. You’ll feel excitement as you take steps to build your family. But you’ll also feel the overwhelming sadness as you come to terms with the loss of having a genetic child or being unable to carry your own.
And the trust involved. It’s a lot to wrap your head around.
You’re trusting another human being with your most prized possession, and at times, the emotions involved are almost too much to handle.
I’m here to confidently walk you through the thinking process about whether or not third-party reproduction is the right decision for you and your family. There’s a lot to think about, but my personal and professional experience allows me to offer exceptional third-party reproduction support, no matter what you decide.
Some of the issues I work through with intended parents include the following:
- desires for a potential donor or carrier
- communication expectations before, during, and after the pregnancy
- what being a parent means
- sense of loss or any sadness related to not carrying or being genetically related to your child
- the impact on your family and friend
- how you will discuss your child’s birth story with your child
Some of the issues I work through for donors or carriers include the following:
- the medical process involved
- risks associated with IVF and pregnancy
- psychological functioning
- what support systems are in place
- communication expectations before, during, and after pregnancy
- the impact on your family and friends
- how to cope with potential situations that may arise
The third-party reproduction process can feel daunting and confusing. I’ve mapped out what to expect on my FAQ page.
Are You Ready to Take the Next Step?
As a reproductive health psychologist, I understand what it takes to finally get the baby you’ve dreamt of for so long.
I’ve also lived it.
If you’re ready to do the work, I’m your person. And if you’re looking for infertility therapy or third-party reproduction support from someone who truly understands everything – the emotions, feelings, sadness, pain, hopelessness, anger, and downright suffering, then we’re a good fit.
This journey is arduous. It’s not one you should go through without the right support. Contact me today. I’m ready to help you make the best decisions for you and your family—one step at a time.
